Patricia A. R-6843
Firstly, I was able to set aside clouding emotions (especially guilt!) and judge my marriage on it's merits as "good for me/bad for me' and to decide that it is, in fact, worth working at and keeping.Secondly, I was able to decide, again on a logical `good for me/bad for me' basis, which, of two careers I presently pursue, is the one to permanently keep after.
Other issues were more minor, but I appreciate the power of a simple decision!